In last week’s articlewe talked about how we want to simplify matters and make our lives much more striking than necessary occasionally. We’ve got judgments, pre-conceived thoughts, interpretations of what if/what is assumed to be and so on.
As promised, we’ll discuss now what BEING Human means and what are the options we have. Bear in mind, when I said: An educated mind simplifies and comes to a complete circle of the individual experiences and becomes a HU-MAN BEING, in the real sense.
Let’s now work on knowing how to become more educated and up the notch to be a works-in-progress educated human being.
You will discover that many of the pointers below are associated with what we say, how we act and about transforming how we think.
But before I begin discussing I also want you to know that, as careful as you might be we also can’t control how others perceive us, so we all could do is to do our very best. I, for one, am frequently misunderstood. Individuals who don’t know me think I’m trapped or haughty due to how they perceive how I act. So, it’s actually about interpretation.
Now because we can’t change the minds of others, after they’ve made up their minds, we must know to be OK with how other people perceive you. And not allow it negatively impact you.
So here goes:
in regards to talking: a few of you will know this already.
Can it be better for me to not say anything? This isn’t to say that we can’t say things in jest and that we need to be serious all the time. It depends on scenarios. And occasionally saying things in jest in certain circumstances could save yourself some embarrassment and might work to your benefit. Now, if you’re uncertain, then it is ideal to keep quiet.
When it comes to knowing what we’ve said to you or said/written about you, often, regrettably, we listen to what we would like to hear, and this may result in misunderstanding.
Is it a relationship that I put value in? If it’s not a significant one, then let it go if items are really directed to you. If that is a relationship you appreciate, it’s always best to clarify with the individual from a place of love and understanding rather than in a violent confrontation, with the aim to fix the relationship. And maybe we could develop some empathy for them.
If their behavior affects you, then being patient and talking to them about it helps.
Againthe identical question of how much value you put in this connection comes to play here. If there’s absolutely no value, merely let it go.
Occasionally, you’re expected to take immediate action to deal with this with other people. And sometimes, you want to take more time on your own to mull things over.
These are some necessary measures you can take. I know it seems as though it’s so complicated that we must question everything. No, this isn’t my intent that you self-doubt or possess these questions running through your mind all the time. In case you’ve got no awareness, then you’d probably be reactive to situations, and this may create a battle, and that is when you will take some time to think things through.
I can guarantee you that the above steps will become simpler, it’s like learning how to ride a bicycle, when you learn it and with daily exercise, it will become second nature.
There’s a good deal more to how we can uncomplicate our own lives, I will discuss more in the coming weeks!